Thursday, February 10, 2011

Oprah Winfrey:

"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think 'it will get better.' You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you...

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you...

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him n your radar, but get to know others."

[The Perishers - My Heart]

Spot on Oprah, spot on! And I like the idea of getting to know others. Macam angah kata, konsep jodoh depan mata nie menarik rupanya! Hahaha. ;)


lala.

6 comments:

ffincher said...

then must listen to perishers' pills.

:)

najlaa haridan said...

suka suka sukaaaaaaa.

"One may think we're alright
But we need pills to sleep at night
We need lies to make it through the day
We're not ok"

:)

p/s: next week klpac punya appointment on?

prototype said...

kan angah dah kata=p

najlaa haridan said...

hihihi...ye! konsep jodoh depan mata memang dasyhat lah! tapi laa tunggu angah dulu! haha.

ffincher said...

belom konfrem, heheh.

najlaa haridan said...

ala! :(